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New indoor playground alert! 👧🏽 🛝 We jus New indoor playground alert! 👧🏽 🛝

We just visited @enchantednatomas & wow — Riley didn’t know what to try first! With a 2-story climber, zip line, toddler trampoline, ball pits (yes, TWO), & more… it’s the ultimate spot for kids ages 0–8.

Perfect for playdates, mom dates, or just getting the wiggles out.
Have you been yet?!

They’re open Mon–Thurs 9–8 & Fri–Sat 9–9, & there’s even a second location in Elk Grove!

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Looking for the ultimate summer activity? Tie-dye Looking for the ultimate summer activity? Tie-dye is IT! #ad The girls & I had the best time turning plain tees into colorful works of art with @bellacanvas & Create Basics ☀️

It’s easy, affordable, & a perfect way to bring everyone together for some creative fun in the sun. Whether it’s for a summer party or a weekend DIY, tie-dye is always a good idea. Let the memory-making begin!
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In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, I’m sharing 5 simple ways you can protect your peace & pour back into you.

1. Start your mornings with God – Pray, read a verse, or sit in silence & invite Him into your day.

2. Say “NO” without guilt – Protect your time, energy, and peace.

3. Get outside daily – Even a quick walk or sitting in the sun can shift your mood.

4. Talk to someone you trust—or write it down – If you don’t feel ready to open up to someone, grab a journal & let it out. Your feelings deserve space, either way. Me personally I talk to God.

5. Celebrate the small wins – You’re doing better than you think.

Showing up for yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Let’s normalize choosing rest, boundaries, & joy on purpose.

#mentalhealth #mentalhealthawarness #mentalhealthsupport #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthday #mentalhealthawareness💚
Milani sent me the sweetest package full of their Milani sent me the sweetest package full of their new Glossy Plumping Balms. The colors are unreal & I can’t wait to rock them on my next night out. 💋

Thank you so much @Milanicosmetics 

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My daughter and I were shocked to learn how much a My daughter and I were shocked to learn how much added sugar is hiding in everyday drinks like soda, juice, and even flavored coffee. 😳 We had no idea how much we were putting into our bodies, but now we’re uncovering healthier habits together, one small change at a time. 💪🏾 These little steps today are setting us up for big wins tomorrow.

How are you bringing healthy habits into your daily life? 

Visit uncoverhealthyhabits.com to learn more. 

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Just a little thank-you goes a long way! Over the Just a little thank-you goes a long way!
Over the years, I’ve made a bunch of simple, thoughtful gifts for my kids’ teachers — and none of them cost a fortune. From personalized goodies to DIY surprises, every gift was under $25 and made with love. Teachers do so much for our kids, and even the smallest gesture makes them feel seen and appreciated!
Swipe through for ideas you can save for end-of-year, back-to-school, or anytime you want to say thank you, teacher!

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Where function meets floral perfection! With plenty of pockets, comfy straps, & a soft, stylish print, it’s your new go-to for everyday adventures. I love my new bag!

Where would you take yours first?

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Cheesy Pepperoni Pizza Rolls 🍕 Flatten Pillsbu Cheesy Pepperoni Pizza Rolls 🍕

Flatten Pillsbury biscuits, fill with chopped pepperoni + mozzarella, roll ’em up, brush with garlic butter + parsley, & bake at 425°F for 10-12 mins. Dip in marinara + devour!

Who would you share these with—or are you keeping them all to yourself?

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Why I’ll no longer label myself a bad mom.

December 12, 2018      Porsha Carr

Hi friends,
Today’s post isn’t sponsored, it isn’t a rant or anything or at least I don’t think it’s sort of just like me venting to all of you from one parent to another. 
These last few weeks getting ready for the holidays have honestly kicked my ass. It seems like ever since after Thanksgiving I just can’t seem to catch a break. Where do I even began? Ivy had Jersey day at preschool I put it on my planner but then totally forgot about it. I mean how can you forget about something that’s on your planner? I have no clue.. but it’s not like she actually missed Jersey day. Because she was sick so she didn’t even go to school that day. But for some reason, I’m still mad at myself about it. Fast forward to a few weeks later Ivy comes home with a ton of homework apparently over Thanksgiving break they were supposed to be doing it and I had no idea. So two school fails back to back. Then another mom fail, my husband took the girls to ballet for me because I had to run a few errands and what do you know for the first time ever Aria decides to dance with her class. Aria has been doing ballet for two months now and has never actually danced with her class because she’s was too scared. So the one night I decide not to go she dances! Incredible right? Oh but I’m not done yet. Another night of ballet fails. I decide not to take my diaper bag with me (something I never do by the way) then and what happens? Aria pee’s all over herself. Luckily I had extra undies but no extra clothes so we improvised and used her jacket as a dress. Point is I’ve been totally failing at mom life lately and not afraid to admit that. After all these incidents happened I was so hard on myself. 
 
“Your a bad mom” “you suck” “get it together,” I told myself. But then I thought of my girls healthy, fed, smart, not caring a damn about any of those mom fails and I realized I’m not a bad mom, I don’t suck, and I don’t always have to have it all together. I’m not a perfect human and I make mistakes. I’m a planner and when things don’t go my way I get down on myself, especially when it comes to being a mom. It’s so much pressuring trying to raise tiny humans to become decent adults. Being a mom is so stressful. It’s not all Pinterest, planners, and perfect Instagram photos. It’s rough and it takes a ton of work. On those days where I have mom fails, it would seem like the end of the world. But I’m not worrying anymore because it’s not the end of the world. My girls are happy. They’re happy as hell and sometimes randomly throughout the day, Ivy says to me “you’re the best mommy ever.” and Aria says to me “your so pretty mommy.” they might even throw in an “I love you.” and at those moments all is right with the world again. 
 
Point is no matter if my kids are 2 or 20 I’m always going to make some kinda mistake(s) as a parent and that’s fine. I’ll learn from it and I’ll better myself. Because I’ll never stop learning, even though my kids think I know it all or have it all together and I don’t. To them, I am a hero. To them, I am mommy finger. To them, I am the best mommy ever. So why would I continue to mommy shame myself and label myself as a bad mom when I make human mistakes? I shouldn’t, I won’t.

So if you’re a mom or even a dad reading this and you parent shame yourself that ends now! Let this blog be a reminder that you will make another mistake because you are human but you are doing the best you can I promise. 


Most importantly don’t ever forget that your little one loves you unconditionally no matter what.
 
Thanks for reading friends.
 

 

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Hi, friends my name is Porsha. This is my blog, here I️ will share pieces of my life with you which means celebrating, my family, motherhood, traveling, food, photography, and so much more. Thank you for visiting, come by more often!

This is my family. The Carr’s. Meet my husband Dayjhan. Lover of all things gaming, sports & being my favorite headache. Then there’s Ivy, Aria & Riley! Our three daughters, who constantly keep us on our toes. Ivy is the 10-year-old sweet mama’s girl. Aria is our 9-year-old sassy daddy’s girl. Then there’s Riley. Riley is our newest little edition to the family. She’s 3-years-old and def an energetic mama & daddy’s girl (mostly mom sorry dad). But she is the sweetest toddler baby and we love her so much. This is my squad.

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